Free Stuff

scripturebook Free StuffWe have another Guest Post/Free Stuff/Stuff We Like to give away (maybe we need to rethink these categories)! This one is from Rebecca Irvine, author of a great blog (Scripture Mom with a recent post of 10 Quiet Conference Activities to complement what Lisa started) and the published author of the book you see here. You guessed it: she’s going to give one away to one of our readers. Leave a comment by the end of conference weekend, Sunday night, October 5th at midnight MST to be eligible. We’ll choose one random winner.

The topic of scripture study is especially timely, I think, because of General Conference: a chance to take a deep drink at the well, gather my wits about me, and determine (again) to do better. And as I reread this list, I realize that all of these tips would be useful to improve my own personal scripture study, which can get pretty dull and routine. See what you think! And, by all means, if you have any tips that have worked for your solo scripture study, for your family, your spouse, your friends, your ward, please, PLEASE share in the comments below. All we have is a chance to do better tomorrow.

Thanks for the practical post and the fun giveaway, Rebecca!

Rachel



Five Tips for Successful Family Scripture Study Sessions

Holding family scripture study can be one of the most challenging commandments to keep, especially if you are the parent of young children.  The trick is to get organized and motivated enough to establish family scripture study as a regular part of your day.  Here are a few tips and tricks that have worked well for my family:

1. Time After Time Time plays an important factor in family scripture study in two separate ways.  First, when should family scripture study be held?  IM(humble)O anything that absolutely has to be done during the day should be done early in the morning.  I hold scripture time with my children the last five minutes before they leave for school in the morning.  On the weekends we do it while eating breakfast (the whole captive audience thing works well). Of course there are those extra hectic days when we run out of time or forget, but the point is to find a time that fits into your family routine and it becomes habit.

Second, the length of scripture study time should be appropriate to the ages and attention span of family members.  In the case of families with young children the term “study” may be somewhat of a misnomer—we all know how well a six year old would pay attention in a 45-minute Gospel Doctrine class.  She wouldn’t.  But she is likely to survive a five to 10-minute lesson. Be willing to let your family scripture study time evolve and grow with the capabilities of your children.

2. Be Prepared Boy Scouts do not have a monopoly on being prepared.  Take a little time to prepare and then your family will be set for holding family scripture study for a week or more.  Some preparations you might make ahead of time include:

  • Decide ahead of time your strategy for study, whether it is by story, topic, or something else.  Put your plan on paper to help keep your family on track.
  • Keep your scriptures in a convenient location to where you hold study time.
  • Look up and bookmark scriptures ahead of time.
  • Find visual aids beforehand.

3. Attitude Schmattitude One of the main reasons for holding family scripture study is so parents can help children to learn to love the scriptures.  If parents have a negative or frustrated attitude when doing scripture study time children will be less inclined to enjoy or learn to love the scriptures. And forget having the Spirit there to help.  So, although it can be difficult to get everyone together at the same time and in a cooperative mood, parents should be conscious of their own attitude and do everything possible to make those few minutes positive and happy.

4. Busy Hands Make Happy Hearts The third key to having a successful family scripture study time with children is to get them actively involved.  Some tricks I use include having a child read the scripture verse(s) out loud, using visual aids (the Gospel Art Kit is wonderful), and asking kids questions about what was read.  Additionally, having a hands-on component can be very helpful.  One summer we studied the 13 Articles of Faith by making a collage for each one; the kids loved gluing on the pictures we found for the collages.

5. Real Scriptures vs. Scripture Stories Retold There are a number of really good scripture storybooks out there that can be used to enhance family scripture study time for children.  And there is great value in helping children to understand the overall story lines of the scriptures.  However, be sure to also include real scriptures; the earlier children gain a feel for scripture verbiage the better.  Since my DH is not home for our morning scripture time, we also take time as a family to read from a scripture storybook before bedtime. Another good idea is to read a verse or two from the actual scripture stories to supplement the storybook—that way children have the benefits of both options.

48 Responses to “Free Stuff”
  1. pattilunn says:

    Cool giveaway. Pick me. Please?

  2. fifster says:

    This topic is one I always feel guilt about because it IS so hard to stick with. For now, I read one verse to my kids each morning while they are eating breakfast. I read the seminary scripture mastery verses. I still have my seminary cards in my scriptures so we just go down the lists and when we get done with the standard works, we start over. We discuss what the scripture means after it’s read. It’s not much, but the kids and I both learn and when they do go to seminary, all those verses will be very familiar to them!

  3. mamachelle07 says:

    I love all these giveaways you guys do! This one seems especially awesome though; who couldn’t use a little help in having their families study the scriptures a little more?

  4. amypa says:

    I was just thinking (worrying) about this today. My kids don’t seem to be getting much out of our “let’s read a column” scripture routine right before bed. Perhaps I need to change the time of day? It does help before the prayer to sing a primary song of the childs’ choosing! Thanks for the great giveaway. I could really use it.

  5. Julie P says:

    I just found her site a week or so again and really enjoy it. This book looks great.

  6. angie f says:

    I would love to be the winner of this free gift. Please pick me!

  7. michiganhills says:

    Scripture study in the morning worked great, until my oldest started early morning seminary. Since then, its been hit and miss as we have tried to find a time that works. Any suggestions for families with kids from HS age to elementary age? It’s the scheduling that is the hard part. I do know there is a definate difference in our home when we are consistently reading scriptures!!!

  8. NancyH says:

    I have been thinking about how to include our toddlers in scripture study. We just started doing “5 minute quiet time” to prepare for when the sacrement is being passed. We have 20 month g/b twins and the thought getting them to sit still for longer than 5 min is not even in my near future. But this might get me help me prepare for the future.

  9. empascual says:

    Pick me pick me!!! Please!

  10. stephw70 says:

    Sounds great!! We read at breakfast while they are seated and quiet. It’s worked for 4 years now.

  11. Jessie says:

    I love this idea of reading during a mealtime when you’re already together… we’ll have to try that one out over here. I’d love to win this book–anything to help with accomplishing the important stuff.

  12. dntodd says:

    This is definitely an area we struggle with! Thanks for the great tips. The book looks great!

  13. paulchuyu says:

    OH, Sounds Wonderful!

  14. jkeagle13 says:

    President Uchtdorf spoke to a small Institute gathering I was privileged to be a part of. He spoke on something quite similar, stating that contrary to common belief the word LOVE was actually spelled TIME. He spoke of being in a senior management position at Lufthansa where his demands were inevitable. He always set aside time for his family. When a work conflict came up he always declined it, stating that he had previous arrangements that he could not get out of. He explained that if he had said he could not attend due to family appointments, his staff would have been angry and belittled him.

    A good lesson I think that can be applicable to all of us. Time is critical and ultimately that time spent with family in both spiritual and secular activities is what builds the bonds and great spiritual wealth we take with us. Nothing else goes.

    Thanks,
    Joseph

  15. mimi says:

    I have no excuse because it’s just me and my husband. But, I ALWAYS appreciate tips because it’s hard even just for the two of us to make this a fantastic habit.


  16. We do our family scripture time at night just before bed. We don’t always get it in every night, but since we started using the seminary reading charts, I can keep track and it helps me remember to do it. My toddler hovers around the table but he stays in the same room with us. My 8 year old has discovered that if he reads aloud, I count it as his school reading assignment. My 11 year old will help if I have laryngitis, but otherwise I read. I want them to get used to the language. In the last six years we have been through the Book of Mormon twice, we went through the D&C and PofGP last year, and this year the kids decided they wanted the story “from the beginning”, so it’s Old Testament time. The two older ones ask “what does that mean?” a lot. I think it’s a good sign.

  17. Well-Rounded Woman says:

    I love Scripture Mom! And her book is awesome, along with all the other free ideas and images she posts on her blog. We are working on a consistent scripture time with our 4 and 2 year old boys. So far it’s sporadic, but way better than before. If I win the book I’ll be set for someone’s Christmas present.

  18. stevienfam says:

    Thanks! We have four young children and can always use more scripture study ideas! I especially love the collage idea.

  19. JessicaK says:

    I would really love to win this!!

  20. thelma says:

    Pick me! I would love this book.

  21. shauna says:

    That book sounds great. We just started the “in the morning before heading off to school” scripture time and it has been good for us. As soon as the clock strikes 8 we know it is time for scriptures. However, with three rambunctious young ones I am in desperate need for some ideas to make scriptures more engaging to them.

  22. AZWingnut says:

    This would be a great book to have. Our Stake has set goals for us for each month. This month is hold FHE and next month is on scripture study. This would be a great too in our family meeting the stake goal. Oh and I love the idea on collage for the 13 Articles of Faith. We are trying to learn them and have the magnet set for the fridge but I think if they created a collage that would help them remember them. Thanks for the idea!

  23. waterballet says:

    This a great post and very timely!

    Ann Snider
    snider6@frontiernet.net

  24. lissieloo says:

    Sign me up!

  25. brytt says:

    Scripture Power! The power that I get each time I read… :)

  26. Kerri says:

    This would be a wonderful gift and a push to help get us motivated with FHE while putting the conference talks to memory. Hope I win.

  27. maddie says:

    our family is always looking for better ways to study. thanks.

  28. emmie-lew says:

    Love it! Great ideas! My little kids (5 & 3) fall asleep listening to “The Scripture Scouts” every night. They love it- and it familiarizes them with the stories, too. Thanks for the fun ideas!

  29. llamitanan says:

    Would LOVE to receive the book! I’m new to this site and it sounds great!

  30. ktagg says:

    I would love to win the book! Thanks!

  31. Thora says:

    Help with children and conference? Sounds great! Also, I really appreciated the tips for scripture study; we have a two and a half year old, and we just began scripture study with her two days ago, so this is very timely. We had started with the church’s scripture stories, but now I’m going to add in reading a verse or two from the relating story in the Book of Mormon.

  32. Audra says:

    Huh…I try but usually end up falling asleep.

  33. kcronin143 says:

    Maybe this would jump start us again to make scriptures part of the everyday routine!

  34. crisgar says:

    Scripture study has always been a tough one for us, everyone has such busy schedules. The book looks great!

  35. andrea o says:

    This looks awesome! Any help we can get, we’ll take! Thanks for posting it, even if I don’t win it!

  36. jfcrane says:

    This is cool! I hope I win!

  37. janirvine says:

    As a Scripture Mom groupie, I have to say that these ideas are great. I appreciate the thought and enthusiasm that are behind the writing of both blog and book.

  38. Terressa says:

    This looks great! Great timing!!

  39. ksmooch says:

    With 7 kids ages 14 to 7 months this would be AWSOME! PICK ME!!

  40. Roxanne says:

    Count me in!

  41. pbs2u says:

    We could use some help too!

  42. leeben says:

    We have two teenagers and with their busy schedules somedays are tough to get any scriptures in with the family. We use to do it in the morning, but are now back to nights before bed. We usually read and discuss a few chapters out of the Book Of Mormon. My advice is to keep reading, even when it seems like no one is paying attention. We started reading the scriptures when our oldest was quite little. She would always try to get away, and we weren’t sure she was getting anything out of it. We had given her a copy of the missionary BOM, with the pictures. One day we had read about Abinidi and King Noah. Later that evening, she was looking at the pictures in her BOM, and we heard her say, “You be nice to abinidi, King Noah”, as she looked at the picture. It does get through and is worth the time spent. This book looks like a terrific resource.

  43. peanutmommy says:

    thanks!!!

  44. tarynberry says:

    Ooo, I would love to have that!

  45. motherof5boys says:

    It looks like a great book, and I’m always in for new ideas. One thing we’ve tried lately, is trying to personalize the stories we read… so when we talked about “opposition in all things” we then played a game about opposites! The kids really liked it. We also read out of a photo book, so they can see pictures & the stories become more real to them. Yes, indeed, we read over the breakfast table. Their Dad is gone a lot, so sometimes we call him to include him in the reading - or tell him what we read about. I need all the help I can get, with a Dad who is on the road a lot! Thanks!!

  46. shazbraz says:

    Ooohh…I keep meaning to pick this up (the author was a missionary companion of mine) but I just haven’t done it yet. I would love to win!

  47. Rillalev says:

    Oh, Pick me, pick me, pick me! Yeah, I am a little immature - the real reason I need this.

  48. Cloey says:

    I could really use this with my kiddos! I just don’t know where to start with introducing them to the scriptures, but my oldest is 3 and it’s time to get started.

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