A New Day’s Resolution

Finding myself already overwhelmed and stymied by the expectation of exhibiting a chosen effective behavior for a WHOLE YEAR, I decided in a quiet moment today (yes, I actually had one, contrary to the usual way of things) to try for a New DAY’s resolution instead of a New Year’s resolution. In fact, I’m going to try it every day.

Today’s resolution is related to the decision I have made to try moving forward day by day instead of attempting to swallow a whole year at once. It is this: Today I will do what I can  for this one day and refuse to hold the whole day hostage to an eternity’s worth of responsibilities. Yes, I have more to do than I’ll ever be able to handle. I can’t do it all today–and I don’t have to. I will choose what absolutely MUST be done before day’s end if my life is to continue to run without serious complications (surprisingly little, it turns out). I’ll do that first. Then, everything else I fit in to the day is a CHOSEN activity instead of a mandate. That sure takes some of the pressure out of it!

5 Responses to “A New Day’s Resolution”
  1. momnstuff says:

    Besides, all that other stuff will still be there tomorrow and the next day and the next until it is the most important thing. If it never becomes the most important thing, why worry about it?

  2. Lisa says:

    I love this! Choose one thing you must do, and expect the emergencies and complications to come along. Funny how I’m constantly surprised that they come up (interruptions and whatnot). . .

    It reminds me (I know this is weird) how toddlers need their nutritional needs met not necessarily on every single day (impossible), but over days (doable).

  3. dela1818 says:

    I think I might put this part of your post on my fridge: “I can’t do it all today- and I don’t have to.” That is zen, my friend.

  4. emilylf says:

    genius.


  5. sounds great!

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